When you grow up witnessing
domestic violence, that’s called,

Childhood Domestic Violence

When you grow up witnessing
domestic violence, that’s called,

Childhood Domestic Violence

What is Childhood Domestic Violence?

When you grow up in a home witnessing domestic violence, that’s called Childhood Domestic Violence or CDV. Through the lens of childhood, domestic violence is violence towards a parent.  It can be physical or nonphysical.

Carlie witnessed domestic violence in her childhood home and the effects stayed with her into adulthood. But then something shifted. “My life began to change for the better the moment I learned that I experienced CDV. It shined a  bright light on the missing puzzle piece of my life.”  

Awareness is the First Step

Unlike other universally recognized childhood adversities – such as physical child abuse or divorce – Childhood Domestic Violence (CDV) remains largely unknown, even among those who experience it.  Why?  Many who grow up living with domestic violence believe they weren’t impacted because they ‘only saw it or just heard it’—but witnessing is experiencing.

When Roger became aware that he experienced CDV, that awareness marked the beginning of significant positive change.  As a leading researcher said, “even a small shift in perspective can transform a life’. 

When you grow up witnessing domestic violence, that’s called Childhood Domestic Violence – CDV

1 in 8 people experience CDV.

Staggering scale – little awareness

1 in 8 people are impacted 

Childhood domestic violence is the least known adverse childhood experience (ACE), yet more than 275 million children and 725 million adults are impacted.  Increasing awareness is critical as that alone provides validation, makes it easier to talk about and is the first step towards reversing the impact.

The Impact

CDV leaves a deep mental imprint that can profoundly impact a life into adulthood

Experiencing childhood domestic violence negatively wires a developing brain and the formation of the cognitive belief system. It instills a common cluster of negative beliefs that, if unchallenged, can last well into adulthood, leading to emotional & psychological, relationship, substance abuse, physical health, and career & education challenges.

A key step forward, is knowing what to call it, as that validation itself, is according to a leading researcher, “intrinsically healing”.

Two faces look outwardly towards the lies of CDV and the Truths they mask: Under the word Lies it lists guilt, resentful, sad, alone, angry, hopeless, fearful, worthless, self-conscious, unloved. Under Truths it lists Free, compassionate, grateful, guided, trusting, accomplished, passionate, confident, attractive, loving.

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THREE PATHS TO SOLUTIONS

Whether you experienced childhood domestic violence yourself, care about someone impacted or are a young person experiencing childhood domestic violence, you are not alone.

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