by CDVA Team | Aug 20, 2014 | Blog
“I understand that I cannot control the thoughts and actions of others. But I can exercise the ultimate control – control over the meaning of any situation – control over myself. When I am in control of my thoughts and my feelings and my actions, nothing is more...
by CDVA Team | Aug 5, 2014 | Blog
Did you grow up living with domestic violence or care about someone who did?We’re excited to announce the publications of our soon-to-be released book, INVINCIBLE: The 10 Lies You Learn Growing Up with Domestic Violence and the Truths To Set You Free. Written by CDV’s...
by CDVA Team | Apr 10, 2014 | Blog
Last week, I was hosting a dinner party at a restaurant. As we were getting settled at the table, I saw the server and stood up to introduce myself. My mother was a waitress her entire life and I was a busser and waiter for six years, so I think in part my past...
by CDVA Team | Mar 14, 2014 | Blog
“Resentment is the poison you drink hoping to hurt your enemy.” –Nelson MandelaHolding on to the injustice done to you as a child can cause you even more pain today, as resentment leads to emotional paralyzing. Remember, forgiving is NOT excusing or...